Be responsible for your actions

Be responsible for your actions
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  • ¨I am not successful and happy because I don’t have a good job and my boss hates me”
  • “I don’t have my own company because the government doesn’t help me”
  • “I don’t have a good car because they don’t pay me enough”
  • “I don’t want to get into other industries because I am not good in that”
  • “I am always sad because of my childhood and what people do to me”
  • “Everybody hates me”
  • “I don’t have a good life because my boss doesn’t pay me enough”
  • “I am miserable because of my partner”
  • “I did not pass my test because my classmate”

And the list goes on...

It might sound obvious but a lot of people are always blaming everybody else, let’s accept it. Some people are lucky and the rules of the game are not the same for everyone but, the fact that you are miserable is up to you.

I am tired of hearing people that are always relaying and blaming their partners, jobs, and families for their happiness and success.

Stop blaming others and victimizing yourself.
I will say it again.
Stop blaming others and victimizing yourself.

Everything in your life is your fault! (Besides certain situations)

It is true, bad things will always happen but nobody hates you, you are not that important and nobody owes you anything. If you wanna be successful in your way you will have to work smart and get it.

  • Read books,
  • Learn something new
  • Travel
  • Eat healthily
  • Dance
  • Create meaningful relationships

Does your boss hate you?
Change your job

Your partner is a horrible person?
Get away from there

You do not earn enough?
Learn something new

Stop wasting your energy on things that are not helping you at all

Remember next time that you feel unhappy, angry, or frustrated think twice before blaming somebody else. And if you ever earn something new be grateful to those who helped you and YES, That would be your fault too.